How To Bring Up A Prenuptial Agreement With A Potential Spouse

Timing
It is important to bring up a prenuptial agreement as early as possible because it involves important binding decisions. It is important to have the conversation when each party has time to devote to the conversation.

Timing
It is important to bring up a prenuptial agreement as early as possible because it involves important binding decisions. It is important to have the conversation when each party has time to devote to the conversation.

Goals
Ask yourself why you want to have a prenuptial agreement? Maintain a clear objective prior to discussing the agreement with a future spouse. It may be beneficial to speak with an experienced attorney in order to assist in structuring the conversation to ensure that all relevant points are considered.

Plan the Conversation
Plan out the conversation as best as possible beforehand, because it may help address topics that you feel are most important.

Manage Emotions
Discussing a prenuptial agreement may be very stressful. In this instance, both parties may feel nervous and are experiencing an abundance of other emotions. It is important that both parties maintain composure and respond to each others concerns in a constructive manner. In addition, try to avoid tension by taking breaks throughout the process.

Be Mindful of the Other Person
Ask yourself why he or she would want to sign a prenuptial agreement? It is important to put yourself in the other person’s shoes, be flexible, and communicate any concerns you may have.

Discuss Financial Information
Prior to discussing a prenuptial agreement, it is important that financial information is addressed, such as assets, income, and debt of both parties. This not only builds trust, but sets the stage for drafting the agreement. This way there are no surprises.

Do Not Solicit Advice From Family and Friends
A prenuptial agreement is between you and your future spouse. Remember your goals in the process. Taking advice from family and friends may pressure both parties in a negative manner.

These are a few useful points for a discussion with a potential spouse regarding a prenuptial agreement. If you are considering entering into a prenuptial agreement it is important to keep your goals in mind for the future. The Suffolk County matrimonial law attorneys at McGuire & Peláez, PC are experienced in representing clients in a variety of matters, including pre- and post-nuptial agreements, divorce, child support, custody and visitation, maintenance and equitable distribution. Ms. Peláez has practiced daily in the family court for more than 10 years as private and court appointed counsel, and she will zealously fight for your rights. Contact our Long Island divorce law firm at (631) 348-11702.