Summer break can be complex for divorced or separated parents. While children are off from school, making child custody arrangements for their daily activities or summer vacations may become problematic. It is important to remember that consistent and responsive communication will benefit all parties involved, resulting in a less complicated summer.
Here are a few tips for co-parenting in the most effective way:
Summer break can be complex for divorced or separated parents. While children are off from school, making child custody arrangements for their daily activities or summer vacations may become problematic. It is important to remember that consistent and responsive communication will benefit all parties involved, resulting in a less complicated summer.
Here are a few tips for co-parenting in the most effective way:
Proactive Communication
School and work schedules change during the summer months. It is important to make arrangements in advance in order to acclimate any schedule changes. Keep in mind that it is important to work together on structuring a plan that will be in the best interest of the children as well as accommodate both parents. In addition, if the children are going to be partaking in summer activities, such as camp or a sport, it is imperative that finances be discussed ahead of time.
Talk About Vacation Plans Prior To Booking
Any intentions of taking the children on a vacation should be discussed in advance of booking. Additionally, providing tentative dates ahead of time is beneficial to the co-parent. Furthermore, vacations should be discussed amongst the adults prior to informing the children. Provide the co-parent with details regarding the vacation and any other information pertaining to the vacation. Also, if you are traveling without the children, make sure that the children have a safe place to stay. The co-parent should also be informed that someone else is caring for the children.
Talk To Your Children
Discuss the options for the summer with your children. Talk about any activities or interests the children may want to engage in throughout the duration of the summer. It is important that children have a voice in how they wish to spend their summer.
Maintain Flexibility
Be open to alternative options for the summer. If a parent does not feel comfortable with a certain activity or vacation, try to compromise. In addition, be flexible with dates and schedules. Try to avoid conflicts as much as possible.
Create A Schedule
After all, parties have discussed the options for summer arrangements, vacations, and activities, create a schedule. Finalizing plans helps ensure stability for the children involved.
It can be overwhelming to navigate the custody process especially when it comes to protecting the interests of your children. Seeking the guidance of an experienced Long Island family law attorney may be crucial to peacefully resolving potentially contentious issues. The Long Island family lawyers of McGuire & Peláez, PC are sensitive to your needs, skilled in handling divorce and family court matters, and will fight zealously for your rights. For more information or to schedule a consultation, contact our Long Island divorce law office at (631) 348-1702.
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